Embracing Uncertainty
As an astrologer and life coach, some of the questions I'm most frequently asked by my clients are:
"Will this relationship work out?"
"Do we have a future together?"
"Is this the right career for me long-term?"
“What is my calling? Which path should I choose?”
I get it. Uncertainty can be terrifying. Life is short, and we are often faced with the fear of making the wrong choice. Most people want to avoid pain at all costs, and no one wants to live a life of regret.
Here's the thing to remember: pain and uncertainty are our greatest teachers. Some of the most valuable lessons we learn in life come from the experiences that "didn't work out". These lessons make us stronger. Oftentimes, it's these very experiences which form the necessary foundation for the situations or relationships in our lives that WILL work out. You can't skip steps, and you can't avoid disappointment or heartache. If you have the courage to face uncertainty and take risks, even without having all the answers, you will become the true warrior and hero of your own life.
That said, these questions are worth exploring on a deeper level. At the heart of the question “Will this relationship work out?” may lie a fear of rejection or abandonment. At its core, this question is really about “Am I worthy of love? Can I find someone who will love and accept me for who I am?”. When addressing these questions with a client, I look at the Moon, Venus and Mars in the birth chart to get a better understanding of the basic needs and fears as far as love is concerned.
At the core of the question “What is my calling?” is a desire to live a life of meaning and purpose. The fear here may have to do with feeling like time is passing by too quickly, and the fear of regret or making the wrong choice is strong. With this type of question, the birth chart and current planetary transits can reveal what phase of life the client is currently in, and what that means for the lessons their soul is working on now and in the future.
If you book an astrology session with me, we can take a deeper look at these questions, where they originate from, what’s being activated for you presently, and how you can make the most of the present cosmic energies to help you navigate your way forward with more clarity.
Navigating this fragile human experience is what makes life so meaningful. The good news is you don’t have to figure it out all by yourself. That’s what I’m here for!
I look forward to working with you,
Caroline
